Our apartment in Nutley!

Our apartment in Nutley!

Saturday, September 13, 2014

We Went Walking This Morning



We try to go walking as often as we can in order to provide us with the illusion that we can obtain eternal life through exercise.  When doing so we often encounter other walkers who are pursuing some variation of the same illusion.  We always try to greet such fellow pilgrims with a cheerful, "Good morning!"

Most of the time they return the greeting as we pass, usually with somewhat less enthusiasm.  I think our name tags worry people a little.  Occasionally our salutation is completely ignored.  Oh, I am sure it is not intentional.  They probably just had a death in the family or some equally traumatic event in their life that has soaked up their entire bandwidth of awareness.  Who am I to judge otherwise?  After all, I have been known to focus on a problem or other attractions with such intensity that the world could cease to exist and I would hardly notice.

Once in a great while we encounter someone who wants to talk.  Such was the case today.
He was a very nice man of 63 with full head of silver hair who was out walking his dog which looked like a miniature husky.  Very attractive dog.  Our name tags did not bother him a bit.  In fact, that was what started the conversation.  He said something like, "God bless you for what you do.  I am Roman Catholic, but it's all the same.  Right?  As long as you treat people right it's all the same God.  Right?"

We learned that he was a retired school teacher of special needs children and that his wife is still actively teaching such children.  I will not be surprised to someday learn that people who do that kind of work have a very special place reserved for them in our Father's Kingdom.

As the conversation continued we learned that they have one adult daughter who also works in education and that there are no grandchildren yet.  Our new sidewalk friend said their daughter has a boy friend and he made it abundantly clear, complete with expansive hand gestures (I think he is Italian), that he wishes they would get married and have children before he develops dementia and won't know who they are!

In this kind of situation we really do not enjoy mentioning that we happen to have seven wonderful children and 18 equally amazing grandchildren because it would be a little too much like going, "Nah, Nah, N', Nah, Nah" as we did when we were kids on the playground.  And, we are adults.  Right?

Actually, we kind of know how he might feel.  Many of the senior missionary couples we meet seem anxious to tell us they have 27 children and 3,509 grandchildren and only 75 great-grandchildren, so far.  "Nah, Nah, N', Nah, Nah."

Okay, okay, I am exaggerating a little.  I have never actually heard a senior couple say, "Nah, Nah, N', Nah, Nah."  How did I get this far off subject?

Anyway, as we said goodbye and parted ways I was feeling a little sorry for this very nice Italian gentleman (I think his name is Tony) because his desire for grandchildren is probably a forlorn hope.  Why?  Because all religions are not the same.  Yes, they all teach us to treat people right, but they do not all have the true doctrines of our Heavenly Father which, when coupled with the power of the Holy Ghost, make it much easier to develop the faith necessary to keep the commandments of God when it is very unpopular in our society to do so.  Now, that is a long sentence but it is so true.


So, while we are experiencing joy and rejoicing in our posterity, poor Tony is becoming more and more aware that he and his wife are missing out.  Mercifully, they are not fully aware of the depth or height of that joy and rejoicing.



Monday, September 1, 2014

Photo Of Elder Alforeza That Goes With The Story Below





What Is The Most Rewarding Part Of Being A Senior Missionary?



I can think of several contenders for the answer to that question.  So far I am reluctant to identify one that I would put above the rest.  However, one of those contenders that always comes to mind is the joy, privilege, pleasure, spiritual experience, and all around fun of working with the young Elders and Sisters.  Something happened this Sunday morning (08/31/2014) that reaffirmed that serving with these wonderful young people probably should be at the top of the list.

We received the following text message from Elders Alforeza & Cruz:

            Good morning oh so sweet and loving couple to zone 1 and the Paterson Branch!
            We don't know where we would be without you two!
            All we know is that we will be lost and that we appreciate all your help :)
            <Brazil ~ Saipan>

I think :) is a smiley face, but I am not sure.  Elder Alforeza is from Saipan and Elder Cruz is from Brazil.  I responded:

            Thank you so much!  It is wonderful to be appreciated.

Whereupon they texted back:

            :) youre welcome.  Its much deserved.
            I was just thinking about all the hard work you do for this mission, for us, and the           branch.
            The least I can do is say thank you for all your efforts!
            <Brazil ~ Saipan>

Someone who is a little cynical may be a slightly inclined at this point to think that these missionaries are looking for some major favor.  But, not me.  In fact, I was so touched that my eyes moistened up a bit and I began to wonder how hard it would be to adopt someone from Saipan.  (Note to our children:  Don't worry about your inheritance.  Zero divided by 7, 8 or 9 is still the same.)

If you are feeling under appreciated try serving an MLS (member and leadership support) mission.

Monday, August 11, 2014

The Face of Paterson 2nd Branch

On Sunday our branch president mentioned that there are more than 30 counties represented in the Paterson 2nd Branch membership.  So we decided to give you a sample of pictures we have taken at branch activities.

Branch breakfast and Easter egg hunt.
(Next 7 photos)





 The Grolon family
(Mexico)



(Philippines, etc.) 




(Ghana, etc.)






(Utah, Ghana)













(Idaho, China)










Branch breakfast and Pioneer Day celebration.
(Next 9 photos)

 











President Bria & Brother Johnson






(African-American, German)






(Jamaica, African-American)







(New Jersey, Mexico) 






(Sierra Leone)







(African-American, Hungary)


















 Taihibi Ladson's baptismal service





 Several weeks later Taihibi (on the left) baptized his brother, Herschel Jordan.
 Their sister, Shimaya Ladson,is in front.
The other two on the right are Herschel's non-member sons.


Saturday, August 2, 2014

We Visit Palmyra



Shortly after arriving in New Jersey we were informed that President Jeppson allowed senior missionaries to attend the Hill Cumorah  Pageant.  We promptly received permission and made our plans.  We would drive to Canandaigua, New York, on Monday, July 14, 2014.  On the way we would stop at the Peter Whitmer Sr. farm where the Church was formally organized on April 6, 1830.  On Tuesday, July 15, we would attend the pageant, and on Wednesday we would return to New Jersey.

Everything went pretty much according to plan, with a few surprises along the way.  Just after checking into our hotel in Canandaigua we went to a nearby store to buy batteries for our camera.  The skies had been threatening rain for much of our trip and had provided a few sprinkles, but now it was looking very black toward the west.  As we were walking in the store parking lot our cell phones started making unusual sounds.  We looked at them and the message was, "Extreme Alerts:  Tornado Warning in this area . . .  Take shelter now."  At the same time we could hear cell phones all over the parking lot sounding off.  I figured that a Wal-Mart was as good a place as any to take shelter but Sister Shaw wasn't so sure.  As we walked up to the door she asked a local, who was standing there, what we should do.  The answer was about what I expected but was not at all reassuring for Sister Shaw.  The exact answer was, "I don't know."

The store was abuzz with tornado talk.  We bought batteries.  If there was going to be a tornado I wanted pictures.  Back outside I looked up and could see that the blackness was now directly overhead and appeared to be rotating.  Time to get in the car and make a run for it.  The only problem was our front brakes were making a terrible noise.  It sounded like the old warning when the brake pads wore thin, only it was worse.  That was back in the day when I did my own brake work.  Do they still work that way?

Anyway we drove the block or two back to our hotel with our brakes screeching all the way.  This was beginning to remind me of the old nightmare I had repeatedly as a kid where the monster is chasing you but you cannot run fast enough because your feet are like lead or stuck in tar or something.

We sat there in the hotel parking lot while Sister Shaw looked up a brake shop on her smart phone and I looked up at the sky.  There was a brake shop close by but going there would take us in exactly the wrong direction if our object was to flee.  So much for fleeing.  We headed for the brake shop.  The pictures would be amazing!

After driving a short distance toward the storm we made a right turn, as directed by our GPS, and suddenly the screeching brakes stopped screeching.  We did not spend a lot of time analyzing this miracle right then, but instead reversed the direction of our travel via a nearby parking lot.  We then turned east for a short distance on highway 20 and then turned north on a country road with the name of Smith.  It was time to put some distance between us and the storm.  So much for my amazing pictures.

As we sped northward we could see that the sky ahead was not nearly as threatening as what we were leaving behind.  Just as we were beginning to feel a little more secure the rain came.  This was not a pleasant little California shower.  It came down so hard and with such volume that the most extreme wiper action had no chance of clearing the windshield.  We had to slow down to a crawl in order to maybe stay on the road.  I began to wonder at what point the paint would start to peel off the car.  I had no doubt that there would be significant damage if the rain changed to hail.  I glanced quickly at the outside temperature displayed on the dash.  Can it hail when it is in the mid 70s?  I suspect that it can.  Fortunately it did not happen this time and a few minutes later we drove into Palmyra on dry pavement

Our first stop was the Grandin print shop on Main Street where the first edition of the Book of Mormon was printed.  The job was to produce 5000 copies of a hard bound book in the neighborhood of 400 pages.  This was a monumental job for a frontier print shop.  Actually, this was a monumental job for any print shop of its day.  The equipment was so primitive.  There was so much hand work to be done.  In spite of all of this the job was completed in March of 1830, after less than eight month's work.

Just a few months earlier it could not have been done at all.  The building that Grandin's print shop occupied was not even completed until 1828.  The new printing press had just arrived via the just completed Erie Canal.  These are only a few of the things that had to come together in order for the Book of Mormon to be published.

As we stood there in this special place and considered what was done and how it was done we could clearly see the hand of God all over this project.  We can also see the hand of God all over what happened next as the Book of Mormon has gone forth from its humble beginning in this place to fill the whole earth, just as was prophesied by Joseph Smith.

All things considered, it is far easier to believe that the coming forth of the Book of Mormon and the Church was an act of God than it is to believe that Joseph Smith made it all up.  Other than the fact, of course, that if it was an act of God, then you may feel compelled to keep the commandments.  And, keeping the commandments is just too big a price for many people.  So they desperately grasp hold of this or that outrageous explanation of how Joseph Smith performed this miracle, with about the same odds of being right as a lottery player has of winning the jackpot.

But, none of this kind of thinking means much to me anymore.  My testimony long ago crossed over from being based on careful logic and discussions of probability to being based on personal revelation from my Father in Heaven via the power of the Holy Ghost.  I have read the Book of Mormon many times.  I have prayed many times to have that personal witness.  Over and over again my prayers have been answered as I have felt the Holy Ghost testify to my spirit that these things are true.  As I stood in Grandin's print shop I once again felt that powerful witness.

Now all I need to do is keep the commandments.

The next day (Tuesday) we visited the Smith farm, the Sacred Grove, the Hill Cumorah, the Palmyra Temple, and then watched the Hill Cumorah Pageant.  Somewhere in between we went back to Palmyra and visited an LDS bookstore and gift shop where we bought a book titled "A lion and a Lamb" which is about Willard and Rebecca Bean.  They were called on a five year mission in 1915 and were released 24 years later.  Their mission was to take care of the Smith farm, which the Church had acquired, and to lead the way as the Church re-established a presence in Palmyra.  The story of their amazing adventure is well told in this book which I read in about three days.

On our first visit of the day to the Hill Cumorah we bumped into Elder & Sister Loertscher who were on their way home to Bluebell, Utah.  We knew that their return home plans included a stop in Palmyra so we thought we might see them.  Sure enough, there they were.  It is amazing that you can establish such great friendships in a very short time while serving the Lord together.

The Pageant was amazing as were the protesters.  That's right, there are actually people who think their point of view, that The Restoration was a hoax, is enhanced by standing in a field nearby and yelling at us through a bullhorn.  The yelling stopped once the Pageant began but resumed when it was finished.  Someone told me that human kindness was not the motivation for the heckling recess but rather the police had something to do with it.   I really could not make out what they were saying (hearing loss can be a blessing) but it did not seem to have a loving tone.

Actually, I was glad they were there because it is a sign that Satan is still seriously disturbed by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  It is a long established pattern that whenever the truth is on the earth there will be persecution of its followers.  So, I would be worried if we were just left alone.  Jesus referred to this pattern in His Sermon on the Mount.  "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.  Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you."  (Matthew 5:11-12)

I have always found it interesting that the persecutors never spend much energy trying to expound the wonders of their philosophy of life.  Rather they feel compelled to attack others.  And, what a cheap attack it was.  With a bullhorn.



Who knew there is an Auburn, NY?


Type setting room in Grandin print shop.


Sister missionaries and the "Smith Press" which produced the Book of Mormon.


Exterior of Grandin print shop in downtown Palmyra.


Smith log home.


A couple of missionaries who are way outside their mission boundries.


View of Pageant setup from top of Hill Cumorah.


Angel Moroni on top of Hill Cumorah.


Palmyra Temple.


Cast members in front of Pageant stage.


Saturday, July 19, 2014

A New Assignment



Being comfortable in a Church assignment is a sign that things are about to get interesting.  Our assignment as the driver for trips to New York City, the Statue of Liberty, and other mission destinations were, at first, a little outside of our comfort zone.  Now that we have made several of these trips we  were beginning to feel some degree of confidence.  No longer were we completely terrorized by phone calls from mission HQ telling us they have another job for us.

So, it was no surprise when President Jeppson grabbed me by the arm at a mission get-together and asked if I wouldn't mind taking another assignment.  I told him I would do anything he asked.  He said, "Good, because I need you to be the designated driver of the mission truck and trailer."

So much for being comfortable in my calling.  For one thing, I knew this meant hauling the luggage of arriving and departing missionaries to and from the dreaded Newark International Airport and the mission home.  I have never cared for the experience of going to any airport even with our Honda Civic so the thought of going to the amazingly complex Newark Airport  with a 12 foot trailer and monster truck created a whole new level of anxiety.  Almost immediately I was having flashbacks to the time we went to the race track near Magna, Utah with Ron, Sherri, and the boys.  The main event was a race on a figure eight track where each vehicle was required to be towing a trailer.  Oh the carnage! Oh the humanity!

Then it dawned on us that this also meant we would be hauling furniture all over New Jersey to furnish missionary apartments.  What made anyone think a computer programmer could do this sort of thing?  Consider the fact that the senior missionary (Elder Loertscher) currently doing these things was a professional big-rig truck driver from the time he was 15!  He seems to think he can teach me everything he knows in three weeks.  This is crazy!




"My rig"
NO, I did not put the dent in the bumper!


Saturday, June 21, 2014

I Have A Feeling We Are Not In California Anymore

And, Sister Shaw has been proving it with her list of things that are different which she wants to share with you.  Now we are not saying these differences are good or bad.  You can decide for yourself.

No carpool lanes in NJ.
No safety seal on ice cream cartons in NJ.
Most sidewalks in NJ are a mess.  See below.




More speeders and aggressive drivers in NJ.
Lightning bugs in NJ.
A lot more violent thunder storms in NJ.
Many more black cars in NJ.
Lawn and yard ornaments are very common in NJ.  See below.



Toll roads in NJ.
Very few sprinkler systems in NJ.
No self service gasoline in NJ.
Boy Scouts can still can have a bake sale in front of a store in NJ.
A lot of curbs are still made with individual rocks in NJ.  See below.




Many more people smoke in NJ.
You say, "I'm going down the shore" when going to the beach in NJ.
There are full size pianos in LDS churches in NJ, but they are electric.
To turn left or make a U turn you very often must turn right in NJ.
There are very few left turn traffic lights in NJ.
President & Sister Jeppson are still in NJ but going home soon and we are so sad.